In a rare interview with Paris Match, Brigitte Macron, the first lady of France, sheds light on Melania Trump’s commanding influence over her husband, former President Donald Trump. Macron described Melania as “very sweet” but emphasized her ability to maintain control, stating, “She keeps a firm hand on her husband. When she taps her watch at dinner, her husband understands that it is time to get up and leave. He obeys. She has a strong personality.”
The insight into the Trumps’ dynamic comes from the Macrons’ interactions with the American couple during their visit to France in 2018, reciprocated by a state visit hosted by the Trumps in the same year.
Despite reports of separate bedrooms and distinct schedules in the White House, Melania’s influence on social occasions was evident, with the former president often turning to her for cues on appropriate behavior.
During critical moments, Melania Trump played a central role in White House operations. Notably, she contributed to the decision-making process in the October 2019 raid that led to the death of ISIS leader Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi. Her involvement extended to suggesting highlighting Conan, the military dog hero, who played a crucial role in the operation.
While Melania’s power was often behind the scenes, her public appearances with Brigitte Macron showcased a warm relationship. The two first ladies exchanged hugs and kisses on the cheek, emphasizing their shared sense of style and fashion.
Their interactions were not confined to social events; the Macrons visited Washington, D.C., in April, and the Trumps reciprocated the visit in November to commemorate the end of World War I.
At the White House state dinner in April 2018, Melania Trump wore a stunning Chanel black Chantilly lace haute couture gown, hand-painted with silver and embroidered with crystal and sequins. Brigitte Macron opted for a Louis Vuitton cream full-length gown with long sleeves and gold brocade detail.
Despite their public camaraderie, recent days have seen Melania Trump noticeably absent from her husband’s side in public. She joined him in New York for the funeral of his sister, Judge Maryanne Trump Barry, but has not been present for his legal battles in Florida, Georgia, New York, and Washington, D.C.
While Melania has voiced support for her husband’s potential second term, she has not appeared at one of his campaign events in almost a year, dating back to his announcement of a 2024 bid at Mar-a-Lago on November 15th, 2022.
Melania Trump’s recent public appearances have been limited, with notable exceptions like her attendance at her husband’s sister’s funeral and private moments within their residences and clubs. Despite her public absence, Melania’s influence and support for Donald Trump remain evident, even as he faces legal challenges.
