Kate Tomas, the girlfriend of British actor Andrew Garfield, has opened up about the misogyny and scrutiny she has faced since their relationship became public. Tomas, who identifies as a “professional witch,” has shared her experiences and challenges, shedding light on the issues she has encountered.
Who Is Kate Tomas?
Kate Tomas, a 42-year-old self-described “professional witch,” gained public attention earlier this year when she was spotted with Garfield on a double date with celebrities Phoebe Bridgers and Bo Burnham. Despite her close connections with the rich and famous, Tomas remains relatively unknown to the broader public, with less than 10,000 Instagram followers.
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A spiritual mentor with high-profile clients like Lena Dunham, Tomas is also vocal about her personal identity. She identifies as queer, is neurodivergent with autism and ADHD diagnoses, and suffers from Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, which she says has left her disabled. Additionally, Tomas is “ethically non-monogamous” and is currently dealing with her fourth divorce, which has led her to sell her cottage in Wales.
Career and Controversies
Tomas charges around $2,000 for a 45-minute tarot card reading, which includes two full days of follow-up consultations. Her services require a minimum six-month commitment, with monthly prices starting at approximately $5,000, emphasizing that “magic takes time.” She also offers a seduction masterclass, which was briefly removed from her website following rumors that she used spells to attract Garfield.
In an interview with The Sunday Times, Tomas addressed these allegations, stating that her masterclass does not teach the use of spells or manipulation to attract others. Instead, it focuses on helping clients be “authentically themselves” and build charisma.
Facing Misogyny and Public Scrutiny
Since dating Garfield, Tomas has faced significant public and media scrutiny. She expressed her frustration with being overshadowed by her partner’s fame, stating, “It’s frustrating that no matter how accomplished or impactful a woman is, it’s always going to be more interesting if they are in a relationship with a man.” Tomas also criticized the paparazzi for their focus on her appearance, noting, “They will take maybe 150 pictures, then they choose the four where you look worst.”
On her podcast, The Friday Emails, Tomas revealed the harsh online criticism she has received, including thousands of women calling her “ugly” and “unattractive.” To cope with the relentless negativity, she has used some of the techniques she teaches, such as “screaming into a pillow” or performing “cord-cutting spells” to reclaim her personal power.
Garfield’s Privacy and Past Relationships
While Tomas has been candid about her experiences, Garfield, known for his private nature regarding his personal life, has not commented publicly on his current relationship. His past relationships include a notable romance with model Alyssa Miller and a long-term relationship with Emma Stone, his co-star in The Amazing Spider-Man, which ended in 2015.
Kate Tomas’s openness about her struggles highlights the broader issues of misogyny and public scrutiny faced by women in the limelight. As her relationship with Garfield continues to draw attention, Tomas remains focused on navigating these challenges while staying true to herself.
